No one would ever suggest an adult to Cry it out to teach them anything, why do we think it's okay to do it to our kids? The United States of America is offering the shortest maternity leave of all Industrialized countries, and is the country where the Cry it Out method is most used. Seems ...
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Patriarchy, and the Reign of Fear
With agricultural technologies, architecture, possession, and religion, good and evil transformed into the concepts of “good” and “bad”, too much and too little; families were torn apart, friends became enemies in the constant search for more. These concepts are governing us today, keeping Western ...
Introduction to Needs and Feelings – Why do We do, Everything We Do?
Needs and feelings are two sides of the same coin, but most of us keep them separate. We’re happy when our needs are met. We’re frustrated when they aren’t. It is so simple. So why isn’t it simple, really? It isn’t simple because we’re not accustomed to thinking in terms of needs and feelings; we ...
My personal journey through baby sleep: 0-24 months
Wondering when will your baby sleep through the night and what you can do to make life more enjoyable in the meanwhile? I hope my personal story will answer these questions. I had absolutely zero knowledge on anything baby-related prior to giving birth to my Ilay. I remember telling my dear ...
How to stop Temper Tantrums with Compassion
If there's a single question asked by all parents out there, it is how to stop temper tantrums. This article discusses the nature and source of a tantrum (a word I'm very much against), and explains how to deal with it while keeping the attachment in place. To learn how to stop temper tantrums we ...
How to Build a Secure Attachment with Your Baby
Secure attachment is built during the first 10 years of our little ones’ lives. This article is about building a secure attachment from the very first day. Secure attachment is built by the fulfillment of physical and emotional needs, which are the cornerstone of every relationship, every ...